Five things a classy and feminine woman never does Salut, welcome back to Class By Deb. My name is Deb. If this is your first time here and you are interested in femininity class and elegance you should definitely subscribe and join us. The first thing that a classy and feminine woman never does is “spit in public” I had to learn this one the hard way guys Because I was dating this very fine gentleman and every time he sees me he always complimented me on how classy I always look and behave and one day we went out and we’re going to a restaurant and we stepped out of the car and I had the urge to spit and I just spit and he’s like Nooo a classy woman never spit in public. Oh My God, I got caught, I Got caught. Oh My God. Um, so I know this story might make it seem like we’re doing it for men But I like to look classy and feminine because it makes my life so much easier with men and women That’s why I love to share these tips and things with you guys because it makes life so much easier for us as women So “spitting in public” is a no-no ladies if you have the urge to spit excuse yourself and go to the ladies room go to the restroom and take care of your business there But never ever do it in public The second thing that a classy and feminine woman never does is “pass gas in public” I mean even at home ladies Passing gas is just very disrespectful it’s It really is so I know these things are very silly But those are things that we have to become more aware of when we are on our journey to femininity and to class They always say you do not pass gas around your partner. You do not pass gas around anyone. That’s just plain disrespectful I do not care. How comfortable you feel you are with someone Passing gas around other people. It’s not a classy or feminine thing to do. The next thing a classy and feminine woman never does is “she never looks? Provocative” so I am wearing this beautiful jumpsuit that I got from Rent the Runway and this is by the brand Black Halo. Their style is very much Jackie O inspired. I love this brand. I wear them all the time and Jackie O was a very classic icon, you know and when I got this jumpsuit See that like my boobs are just hanging out So what I did was I added this scarf and I kind of camouflaged my boobs. You can still you know Know that there are boobs under there but it’s not in your face and also my rule of thumb when I am dressing is Not to show everything at once. It could be overwhelming when you have you boobs out, your legs out, your curves out Everything is out. So the rule of thumb for me is to choose one part of my body that I want to play up and keep everything else covered and downplayed again using this example of the jumpsuit. This is a very nice form-fitting kind of joumpsuit So usually when I wear this The rest of my curves are out on display and my beautiful legs are out on display and they look very very long So I really don’t feel like I need my boobs again out. So that’s why I go with this scarf here I also would put a silk cami underneath if it’s a dress or even a jumpsuit like this a silk cami is very very light It will not be bulky under your garment So I love to add that when I’m trying to cover my boobs and kind of play up other areas in my body. Now for my curvy women out there, if you are trying to play up your Décolletage or your cleavage I recommend keeping everything at the bottom very flowy and very subtle. I’ll go for chiffon bottom or something That is very very flowy and kind of keep everything else at the bottom downplayed, and then we kind of play off the boobs, you know, and the decolletage. The very nice and feminine Shoulders that I absolutely love or if you are wearing something where you want to show off your legs, but you are very very curvy You want to kind of have everything on top very loose and then have something short where you can show off the legs but everything else is covered and very very loose and flowy that way there is not too much emphasis on your curves but the emphasis is more on your legs the fourth thing that a Classy and feminine woman never does is “curse in public” This is one of the things that I had to unlearn In my journey to femininity to class is to stop cursing Guys I used to have a very potty mouth and I’m so proud of myself and it is just so beautiful to watch Me not cursing as much as I used to. There’s always a time and a place to curse, you know But if you’re just speaking casually with people it’s it’s just not necessary to just drop the f-bomb drop the S bombs all the bombs you can think of it’s just not necessary. So, I stay away from cursing It is one of my favorite things not to do to be more classy and feminine. Finally a classy woman never engages in arguments or pettiness. Cattiness and pettiness It’s just not classy and I just don’t get it it’s like I feel like it’s a waste of time or a waste of energy like I Just don’t do it. If someone tries to be catty to me. I just let them do it. Like you can do that over there and I’m over here and I’m just like… I hate to say it I hope I don’t sound ridiculous. I don’t know who this man is. I mean he could be walking down the street that wouldn’t I wouldn’t know a thing Sorry to this man. That would be all for this video. If you have any tips any things that you believe that a classy and feminine woman never does leave that in the comments guys because I am still learning I’m still on the journey with you and I do not want to be caught out there like I did before. So, I would love to learn from you leave that in the comments and I will see you in the next one Music playing….