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5 Types Of Rich Men You Shouldn’t Date!

5 Types Of Rich Men You Shouldn’t Date!


There is a lot of men you should stay away
from. And there is also plenty of low quality men
in high society. Just because a man is rich doesn’t mean that
you have to go for him. We are not desperate on this channel. We want high caliber men. We want good man. The quality men, men who are worthy of our
time. So make sure you watch this video because
I’m going to give you five types of men in high society. Stay away from these types, ladies. Save yourself a headache, time and energy. Quick disclaimer. Please
take into account that I’m only generalising in this video. Not everybody is like this and it doesn’t
mean that you should stay away from everybody who falls in under that bracket. What’s important is that you know that there
are exceptions. So, if you have a good gut feeling of somebody,
follow it! Welcome to my YouTube channel. I’m Anna and I run schoolofaffluence.com. It’s an all night finishing school for women who want to become more elegant, be successful in high society and also date affluent men. Make sure to visit schoolofaffluence.com if you want to join us Number one. I’m sure this one will surprise you. Old money or a certain family money type Old money is a big group of people. OK. The reason why I wouldn’t recommend searching
out for an old money type, it is because you are not from old money yourself. If you are. Go for it. But if you’re not, then it can become complicated. You see old money types they like to oftentimes
marry within their own circle, marry within their own kinds. Parents to old money men will often times
be very strict with the woman that the man brings into the house It is often hard to marry
into old money family. Old money means when somebody has a generation of wealth for about
five generations. If the generation of wealth is younger, it’s
usually called family money. So actually this can apply in both groups If you’re just a regular girl it will be difficult
to be welcomed by a blue collar family. Also, I know that old money is somehow a little
bit more prestige somehow in our society. After all they were the first ones who acquired
wealth. However, this doesn’t mean that they’re better
or actually more beneficial to a woman in any way. On the contrary, old money are really well
known for being stingy and then the often case is even cash poor. They might have a lot of wealth but that is
often times tied in property or investment. Not so much money to spend and especially
not spending on a woman. If you think that you will be lavishly taking
care of an old money man, I would say Honestly, I don’t think so! You should really go and find somebody else. Number two. Party playboys. Just go to Monaco Grand Prix or why not Cannes Film Festival or Abu Dhabi Grand Prix. They’re all there and you should really stay
away from them. Now of course the party playboys they’re
not only in these type of events They are everywhere to be quite fair with you. You can easily spot them in any local nightclub
you can easily spot them in the jetset circuit. I’ve actually made a video on the topic of
jetset circuit. So if you want to have a look at that one
it will be linked in the description box. I guess you won’t be surprised with the message
of why party playboys are such a waste of time Because they’re not serious. You are not going to be a wife to a party
playboy. They don’t really settle. They don’t really get married and if they
do get married and if they do get a girlfriend the cheating rates are very high. I’m talking about a 99 percent cheating rate. I’ve been there, done that, seen it, heard it,
everything. Ladies. This one I can reassure you. Leave a comment below if you agree with me. The problem is that these party playboys They still have plenty of women around them. Sometimes it makes me wonder is it because
women are stupid. Or is it because these party playboys have
such a strong game on. And the truth is, they do. They’re very flirtatious. They’re very like you know Casanovas and especially if they’re good looking, young and rich, then it’s like win, win, win in a woman’s
eyes. She will fall for him. She might know it’s not a great idea but somehow
she will be in denial and tell herself that oh no, but this one is different. No no no no no no! They’re not different! They’re all the same. And they are not worth your time. Save yourself a headache. Do not go and search for your future husband
in a nightclub. Do not go and think that you will meet Mr.
Right at the Cannes Film Festival. There are of course exceptions but they are
not the rule. You will be wasting your time. Go to these places. If you are just there to have fun with your
girlfriends, not to look for Mr. Right. Number three. Men who are from a different
religion. Oh that was controversial. Now hold your horses before you jump to any
conclusions. I’m not talking about the religious cannot
mix. Of course they can mix. I used to date men from all kinds of religions. That was never a problem for me. However, there are men who are a little bit
more religious than others. There are men who are less open minded than
others. There are men who are more traditional than
others. Those are the men you should stay away from. If you are not matching religion wise Problem with men who want to follow their
own religious tradition is that either you have to convert for them or it doesn’t matter
if you even would want to convert. They want to be with their own kind. There is just like no negotiation about that
and usually that comes from family pressure quite a lot. Why this has a relation to the affluent
societies, because traditions tend to be more and more important with the rich. If they come from money. If they have you know strict affluent parents
then they will want to be with their own kind and religion then plays a big role. Luckily, there is a lot of religious people
who are not very strict whether they marry a person from their own faith. Which is great. I personally wish people could mix more but
it is how it is So make sure if you find someone who is from a different religion then you are, Try to really start investigating early on in the relationship. How they are in relation to your own religion. These men might perhaps want to have some
temporarily fun with you but going down the road they’re not going to be marrying you. Look at Charlotte and Sex and the city. You know her story. Number four. Narcissistic men. Where do I even start with this particular
type. Sadly enough ladies they’re everywhere not
only in society but especially in high society. That’s because narcissistic people they have
this kind of grandiose view of themselves They oftentimes power hungry, their emotional
disconnected, so they lack empathy meaning that they can really climb mountains but they’re
also a very toxic kind And the kind that you must stay away from. Sadly it’s like said that 70 percent of all
narcissist people are actually men. That is scary. That means that women will be higher chance
of being victim to a narcissist. 1 percent of the population are narcissists. Now they’re not dangerous or anything but
they’re just emotionally damaging to a woman. And it’s kind of their way or no way. You will always be suffering with a narcissist
he will say one thing he will do another. He will just do what pleases him because it’s
all about him. It’s not about you. He might give you some temporary attention
which is why a lot of women become addicted to a narcissist. He does the hot-cold hot-cold type of formula
that really triggers people to become extremely infatuated and hooked to a person but being
hooked to somebody doesn’t necessarily mean it’s healthy. Our relationship with the narcissist
is always unhealthy. That’s why you really have to stay away from
them. Number five. The last one. Workaholic businessmen
or just workaholics in general. Of course I had to bring up this kind because
a rich man means that he works a lot. There is actually a very high chance of this
rich man that you’re after This kind of archetype. He won’t have much time for you. He might be very obsessed with his work Work might be the number one thing in his life no matter how much he’s into you. Work will always be number one. Now the question to you is, do you want to
be with such a man? Or do you want to be with a man who actually takes time for you, gives
you the love, attention and care that you need as a partner in the relationship? Workaholic
person is not in balance and they will become a dysfunctional relationship. This person is always stressed, he’s always
on his phone. You will probably have to just sit there and wait for him to be done. Not a fun experience to be with. I have a very good example to share with you. I was in the relationship once with someone
who I went travelling with quite a lot. He also happened to own a yacht so we spent
quite a lot of time on his yacht on tropical locations, really picture-perfect dream locations and I remember being there with him and thinking to myself that we haven’t really spoken much
during this trip. He hasn’t really said much to me. He’s all the time of his phone even though
we’re on the vacation I’m in this fantasy world in the way Millions of girls would kind
of die to be where I am right now. But I’m not enjoying myself. I’m not having a good time because I’m not
getting any form of love or attention or any of my needs met while being here with him. Well OK. I get one needs met the fact that I’m on this
beautiful vacation but for me personally I always need more from a man. I need the real deal. I need romance. I need love. I need to feel like I’m loved and cared for. And since then I’ve always seeks out men who
I know are not too obsessive about theirwork. They know how to switch off, they do switch
off and they actually state present when they are with you. Now I’ve covered all the types that I wanted to share with you. Make sure you watch my next video because I have plenty of videos on dating rich men. And don’t forget to visit School of Affluence as well.

  • She didn't mention * blood money type *. Like any drug or gang related wealth. Also any wealth from the means of slavery, killing, stealing, child abuse, or obtain in inhuman ways.

  • Some very sensible advice – woman growing up in liberal western cultures struggle when they marry men from the Middle East. Love is clearly vital, and it grows when you get the basics right.

  • I guess now women can only date with an agenda to marry.. because, i guess that is suppose to be the ultimate goal ???
    This chanel is soo rich, I have never seen such a desire to be a slave to conformity and statut quo…

  • Party Playboy will torture you if you marry them, but you forced them to settle and they naturally still want to find adoration. in strange women and conquests.

  • I love the opposite religion wow so good thats what happened to Janet Jackson…. great video thank you so much

  • When your young and pretty who can think like this. but ladies you will get older and you will not
    be happy if you are focused on rich men. Look for someone that treats you great.

  • My prediction, for what it's worth, You will meet and fall hopelessly in love, he's gonna be the genuine article, sweet, caring, madly in love. Will do anything for you. You can't live without him. He's lower middle class, or blue collar, traddie, doesn't give a hoot for your handbag. And the two of you will be gloriously happy!

  • I don't want to find a wealthy man to marry I would simply appreciate having friendship with women or men who have manners and class which I find those who are not affluent seem not to have. It is difficult to form friendships when one has been raised to exist in polite society and is surrounded by vulgar mannerless people. You are the kind of person I would like to have as my friend.

  • Males PLAY, especially if they have money. It is very important to make sure that they are not simply out for 'playing' if you want a real connection or commitment.

  • That's all good and nice, but what do YOU bring to the table?
    Looks? very common, new batches of young legal girls every day and fastly depreciating asset if that is what you stake in your attempt to lock down a "rich and affluent man".

  • Workaholic COULD be a good choice for someone who is the same way. If you are a lady who is building a career – you would like to have someone who is same as you – driven and ambitious. However, that’s just my opinion.

  • I found the best men to date are not too wealthy and not too good-looking. This way, you don't have to worry about him spending money on other women so much…….

  • Lady, you're not just beautyful and elegant, you're also very intelligent and wise !! I have to say this !
    The fact that you asked for being aware of a relationship with a narcissist is georgious !!
    You surprised me now for the secound time in a very positive way !!

    It fills my heart with joy that you've just proved that elegance and social skills can be found together in one character, amazing ! I really loved to see that !! 👏👏

  • How about making your own money and dating a man based on his kindness and your connection, rather than how much money he has?

  • Dated and lived with a Narcissistic man with family money. Aka wife beater. Married a poor man. Happy for 24 years.

  • This reminds me of two movies, "The ultimate gift, and The ultimate life", people getting out of focus what is important, the people in our lives.

  • I love how you have so much clarity about what you want AND you're not desperate. It's very good to have that kind of confidence.

  • I'm a workaholic career woman, so for me the workaholic type is actually perfect. I also really value quality time too, so as long as the few minutes a day dedicated to me are 110% fully mine, I'm happy.

  • Ladies…I'm dealing with the last type of man…the workoholic man! Spending time waiting for him ..always, even this evening he haven't had time for me. Maybe tomorrow…maybe…I'm looking around for anybody better than him, who would give me a little more presence and showing me pretty more affection …I don't know how people can stay there waiting for me…spending their time with him so rarely. I've having quite much enough of it. I'm looking a round ..and inside of me, looking and earing voices in my head inspiring me what to do to start an only one habit but the right one, that will drive me to the right way to the right man for one

    09:21 AM Mon, 2 Sep 2019
    If I think about it, I met that man after having done much things all together. I had spent the whole summer working and having argentine tango lessons, plus a months of other dance disciplines and a few lessons in academic dance. At the end, I changed place where I got to work and still had lessons, only I had much more hours to reach the place where I worked and once I finished, it took me time to get back home in the night, obviously. So…there had been a series of habits in my life that combined and gets me to the fact that I met that one guy!
    Then, I took another job much harder then the previouses before, where a lot of strength and attention to time, was required! And still early in the morning I do workouts, at almost half past four o' clock, before going at work with a workmate of mine.
    I exercised at that time in order to be at work in time.

    If I give a look at what my days were like, during the previous months before I met him…and the earlier ones, when we were sort of.."dating "…I can see that was me, who looked like the workoholic one!!!
    …and that's the reason why I met this kind of man, because it was the same kind I looked like…and even now that I should be on holiday…that's still the same way I look like, because to me, always seems to be business time and also for my exercise, I'm spending a lot of time, which was the same, he's been doing for years before we met.

  • Don't forget. Ladies actually verify what they REALLY do for a living! There are a lot of criminals pretending that they are legitimate. It matters HOW the man in your life makes his money.

  • Hmmm…my grandfather was a playboy kinda still is but it's complicated cause he's married to someone else but he's still attached to the thought of my grandmother she's single now this man brings her up ever time but she asks about once in a blue moon the main reason I say he was (is) a playboy is because he has gotten 5+ ladies preagant and my mum might have 4 more siblings out there none of us know all around her age she's 29 some a bit younger and older but the reason why we don't know for sure is because when he did impregnate a lady before doing it he'd say "If you get pregnant don't come back" or something like that he's also a narcissist and I hate his guts…Sometimes but then I can't forget living with him was better than what's life like for me nowadays

  • I used to always be with the narciissist, until I found out what it was. Now I immediately move on. Very easy to spot . A narc will never protect or provide, except for themselves. Real man makes sure you have breakfast, calls to make sure your okay.

  • THANK YOU for saying the thing about religion. I see women that get with men of certain parts of the world and then they suffer many abuses even if they do convert.

  • A workaholic would be the perfect man for me! I like the opposite of "needy" and I need time for my own goals, projects & me-time. In my past relationships the unsurmountable needs of men to be entertained and loved took my ENTIRE life away. Besides, once the infatuation period of a relationship wears off, you will prefer he is focused on his CAREER rather than other women, annoying hobbies, sports obsessions, computer porn, drinking, gambling and so on. I cannot lie. 😉

  • Since the content on this channel is higher value, I think it would be smart to forget about the stupid smiley faces and thumb up signs. Wouldn't you agree?

    I do like the videos, though. quite interesting.

  • From the point of view of patriarchy, the 'party playboys' are the ones that go against the convention of 'male provider'. Party playboys are the antithesis of the male provider, and the disruptor of patriarchy in the most basic levels. They are 'damaged goods'.

  • 😆😆Sooo true….we know these things… Yet… Somehow we fall for it…and think this one will be different… They never are 🤔

  • This vidoe makes me realise i should stick to my man. He is rich, a workaholic but knows when to stop and is with me when with me. We both are narcissist. So that works. 😉

  • I certainly agree with you on party Playboys. I grew up with many of them and saw girls throwing themselves on these young, rich, partyers, but the party never ended, and these girls all got hurt.

    The girls also kept asking why I continued to be accepted in this group. Easy, I would never date any of them, and stayed just friends.

  • look, most people who become rich in their thirties spend at least half their twenties working often times between 60 and 80 hours for months at a time.

  • I've also been in that position where im in a Fancy place but im not enjoying coz he is always in his phone and his there in person but his mind is somewhere else.

  • No workaholics. YES! It’s not about the money it’s about escaping their feelings and avoiding relationships. This is a sad empty person.

  • The workaholic can be the right fit for a certain type woman, President Dwight Eisenhower told Mamie, "My country comes first and always will." Melania Trump also comes to mind. A woman that marries this man will have to be very capable and not needy, must be willing to entertain herself and have a rich life apart from the relationship. Mamie spawned "Mamie pink" across American interior design.

  • I absolutely love who you are and what you are teaching/reminding woman here on your channel. This is the epitome of style and grace. You are a saint for loving woman as a true motherly archetype! Thank you for sharing your grand experience.

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